Showing posts with label A Note From The Author. Show all posts
Showing posts with label A Note From The Author. Show all posts

Monday, December 24, 2018

This Time Of Year

I know this time of year is very hard on a  lot of parents. I for one am one of those parents.  Each year around Thanksgiving I feel the overwhelming dread of the upcoming holiday season.  I would like to go to sleep in the beginning of November and then sleep until January 01. That would be perfect for me.
But, since I cannot do that, I have to deal with the pressures and the constant reminder of how I do not have my children to celebrate any holiday with.  And it kills me.
Then this year to make things even more depressing, I have had a recent end of a 22 year long relationship.  So now I am really alone.
Trying to keep my head above the water is a constant struggle.  I just don’t feel up to doing much of anything.
So I was thinking that if I am feeling this way there are bound to be others who must be feeling the same, so I thought just in case I would make a note of some suicide prevention resources for any one who might be in need.

National Suicide Prevention Lifeline

Suicide Prevention Hotline

NIMH Suicide Prevention

Best of Wishes and Happy Holidays…

Wednesday, September 17, 2014

A Note From The Author Jessica Lynn Hepner

I have come to the conclusion after some long  time  of consideration that I will no longer fill the role of a Parental Advocate anymore.   It has been a long 7-8 years work on this blog.  I dedicated my life to it, just to make sure other parents who find them selves where I was so many years ago, would have a place to turn where they could get all the information they were going to need for the fight of their lives.  I researched and I studied and I applied my own  personal experience.  And I have tried to help as many who asked for my help.  But, now it has come to a time when the toll it has taken  upon me and my life has become too much for me to bare.

  For all these years I thought that the one person, who had my back in this and who understood my desperation in getting all the information I could out there for other parents, was not fully backing me.  Well he was too my face but behind my back he was trashing me about it.  He would say things like, “All she cares about is that fucking blog!” or things like “She is working on that stupid fucking blog again!”  The whole time offering up nothing but praise and showing pride in the things that I was accomplishing, to my face.  What he failed to mention to  people when he talked shit about this blog, is what the blog actually was about.  He conveniently left that part out.  And when it was brought to my attention by a  quite a few people about what he was saying, they were floored when they found out which blog it was, and they were even shocked that he would say such a thing,

Well this is the final blow that I believe that I can take.  After 16 years of sucking the life out of me and everyone of the dreams I had, this is the straw the broke the camels back.  I sincerely apologize to everyone who this may affect.  I just do not feel like I have anything left to give, to anyone,  and not even myself. 

So I think the time has come for me to walk away from Parental Advocacy.  I will leave the blog in place for future reference for anyone who might need it but I will no longer be posting on it or updating any of the information on it.  Again I am very sorry.  I have done all that I can do.

And for any parent who is new to this fight for your life, hang in there do what your case plan tells you to do, and I mean all of it, when Child Protection says and how they say.  That is the only way you will get  your kids back.  And to those who lost their kids due to drug related allegation, I am telling you this and I cannot stress it enough, if you want your kids back you have to quit the drugs.  And do not even consider doing them again until your child is 18 years old because if you do you are opening the door for Child Protection Services to come right back into your life again.  You cannot beat the system.  So do not even bother to try because the only ones you will be hurting are your very own children.

Good luck to all and may God be with you.  And thanks to all who came to this blog to get the information I wanted so much to share with you, Goodbye.

Jessica Lynn Hepner

Thursday, November 29, 2012

A Note From The Author Jessica Lynn Hepner

It is now November 29, 2012 and the last time I checked the total amounts of hits to this page was at 3:39 pm and that number was 44, 720.  Wow that is simply amazing.  I am so thrilled that the information is reaching people all over the world.  Thank you to all those who have come to this site in search of answers.  I hope you found the information that you were looking for or maybe some helpful links.  My mission is very simple, I just want people to know the God’s honest truth when it comes to dealing with Child Protection Services.  They are no force to be reckoned with.  But the more you learn and the more you reach out the better chances you will have at beating them.  Thank you so much, my readers.  You have helped in the healing process, and  may God Bless you all…

 

Sincerely,

Jessica Lynn Hepner